" I want my wedding to be just like that" or "I want my wedding to be better than theirs ...", you may have said to yourself at some point during your planning process. I am here to tell you that once you get in the comparison mode or the prideful "better than theirs mode", you take away from who you truly are. Let your wedding day reflect you and your fiancee, not anyone else. Whatever it is that you may like or want, don't be afraid to explore it. If you like big extravagant weddings like that of Preston Bailey, go for it! If you like simple, elegant weddings like that of Martha Stewart, go for that! Understand, not one is better than the other. We are all different and unique in our own way! That is the Beauty of it all! BE YOU!